Every morning this week we have started fairly early. This
is mostly because of a (annoying doesn’t begin to describe it) rooster who
decides to start its cock-a-doodle-doo at 2:40am or 4am or whenever it wants. Then
there are the church bells that give rhythm to the village, getting them up at
5:40am, a snooze reminder at 6am, and a warning at 6:15am, and then to work at
7am. Sydney has been waking up around 6:30am. By this time, it is very light
outside. Being 4 degrees south of the equator, we have a 12 hour day year-round
from approx 6 to 6. The internet has been working quite well during the early
morning hours. So between that and getting breakfast ready and having personal
time with the Lord, it is soon the hour when people come in a stream to the
house. Some are looking for a job, others are selling pineapples, peanuts,
eggs, passion fruit, bananas, freshly-caught fish, etc. It is the market right
at our doorstep! If only they would come after breakfast instead of, usually,
exactly when we are sitting down or starting to eat.
Sydney has been taking morning naps, and during this time,
Ryan and I have been going up to our house to unpack and arrange the house. We
had a carpenter come to replace a ceiling tile, an electrician to help Ryan
work on electricity, etc. There have been definite ups and downs during this
process. I would describe it like replacing the belt on a vacuum. Imagine you
are taking it apart and putting it back together, only the instruction manual
has been lost. So you fiddle and try, you ask around, and maybe you look up
something on the internet. Once you’ve found the correct order to remove
panels, the correct flat-head screwdriver with which to unclip the latch, and
the plastic piece that fell on the floor, it seems like a relatively easy
process. The next time you have to replace the belt, it only takes a short
time. Now, imagine doing this kind of process for every aspect of life: how to
get clean water, how to make the electricity work, how and who to hire for
house-help, how to get internet, where to put garbage, how to get more phone
minutes, how to get food, how to cook food, how to greet people on the path.
Yes, we have to try and fail, ask other missionaries or Congolese, sometimes look
up solutions on the internet if it works, text a friend in Kinshasa.
As the number of unknowns has decreased this week, so has
the amount of stress related to lack of knowledge of expectation or lack of
control. At times, it seems like nothing is working and we are so frustrated.
For example, we are unable to locate some of our shipment, and our pack n play
was a crucial part of this. The difficulty of helping Sydney to take a good nap
spills out into the day, even though we, thankfully, have the help of Nancy and
Megan to watch her while we work. Secondly, on the first day of work at our
house, my Chacos broke. Yes, the sandals that have a lifetime warranty and are
supposed to be the best thing since sliced bread. Then one evening we spent 3
hours trying to upload one or two pictures to attach to an email. These are
some of the down moments.
At other times, there are incredibly encouraging moments.
For example, we found out the charger/inverter at our house will likely last
for the interim until our 6-month delayed solar energy system hopefully
arrives. We look around at our house and marvel at how much great wooden
furniture is still relatively intact compared to the damage which could have
been done over the last 15 years by termites. We enjoy the newly-tiled floor,
take a swim in the refreshing water of the Kwilu River, find an infant
life-vest that fits Sydney perfectly, just sitting in the bottom of a drawer,
and I could go on. I think I will. This is the biggest house we have lived in
since we got married almost 7 years ago. When I was feeling especially lonely
for friends we just left in France, I got a text from one that is now living in
Kinshasa that she’d be able to loan us a pack n play until we find a solution
for sleep for Sydney. When I was feeling out of touch with the reason why we
came and had some anxiety about starting back at the hospital after a year out
of medicine, I met one of the interns while walking home and his enthusiasm and
thankfulness that we had come to teach them was so very uplifting and
encouraging, just when I needed it. There have been incredible answers to
specific prayer requests.
Let me end this blog post by describing how one might take a
shower here. Remember the vacuum analogy as you read this.
28 Steps to taking a Shower in Vanga
- Decide you stink, or are hot, or both
- Turn on the faucet in the bathtub to determine water pressure- it is dribbling
- Decide to use the camp shower
- Find camp shower in boxes that need to be unpacked
- Fiddle with camp shower for a few minutes
- Ask husband to come help you know how to fill it- he quickly shows you how to unhook and open the top
- Start filling the 4 gallon bag
- Wait because it takes awhile with the dribbling.
- Spend a few minutes closing and rehooking the bag, not quite knowing the process because your husband unhooked it so quickly
- Stand up with the quite heavy bag of water, heave it out of the bathtub with the intention to put it outside to heat up in the sun
- Realize that the top just unhooked and you have just spilled 2 gallons of water on the floor
- Husband is quickly back in the bathroom, bringing good towels
- Ask husband to bring bad towels as the floor is dusty and now muddy
- Rehook the camp shower, better this time, and place gingerly back in the bathtub in case of further spill
- Help husband mop up the 2 gallons of water with bad towels and wring them into the tub
- Finally, gingerly, take the camp shower with now 2/4 gallons of water outside and into the sun
- Wait at least 2 hours for the sun to heat up the water
- Realize it is too late in the day and the shower will have to wait
- Overnight, the guard is terrified of the mystery black blob in the middle of the patio, and does extra surveillance (he told us today J )
- Next day, after working up a sweat and allowing time for the sun to reheat the water, decide it is now time for a shower.
- Gingerly take the camp shower inside
- Realize the hook above the bathtub is too tall and call husband over
- Husband realizes the shower nozzle wasn’t closed as it sprays him as he is hanging the camp shower. He shows you how to close it
- Rinse the tub as it is muddy from husband’s shoes
- Chase and kill a spider which had taken residence in the tub since yesterday
- Get in and use the cold water to wash muddy feet
- Open the shower nozzle and take a warm shower with water pressure!!
- Praise the Lord for a warm shower, for a husband who insisted on making what seemed like a silly purchase at REI over a year ago, and for being clean and cooled off. J